In almost all Russian companies, the female team consists of five or six people. In most cases, the leader is a man.
Why are there difficulties in the women's team?
-Because women have many characteristics:
Envy
Women are so arranged that they cannot help but experience such a feeling. But they don't know what envy can lead to. A person who is envied becomes bad and life begins to slowly crumble.
Constant rivalry
Women are used to competing with each other in everything. Reasons: appearance, marital status, success, career, friendship, property, clothing, jewelry, higher education. All this can be attributed to the first "point".
Breeding gossip
Everything that was "secret" sooner or later became known. In a women's team, it is very difficult to hide anything. Not everyone is trying to do it. Gossip and divulging secrets are increasingly becoming a real entertainment.
Crazy addiction to household chores and family
Almost all women rarely stay at work. They are eagerly awaiting the end of the working day in order to quickly "fly away" home.
How to survive in a female team, taking into account all the listed features?
Not so difficult as it might seem at first glance.
Personal ...
Do not tell in all colors and details about yourself and your personal life. It is better to talk about all this only with the closest people to whom you have real trust.
Restraint
Never show your relationship to an unpleasant member of the team. Behave with everyone equally restrained and neutral.
Modesty
Remember, you come to work (work first). Do what you are supposed to do, but do not brag about your talents and skills. If you seem better than others, you will experience what a woman's hatred means.
Don't have an affair with your boss.
If it does happen, then do not “spread” about it to anyone. Remember what you've already read here about your personal life.
All unnecessary - "deaf ear"
Ignore taunts and taunts directed at you. If your colleague says that your new image does not suit you at all…. Smile and thank her for the "sincere compliment."
Use the flip-flop method
Do everything so that your ill-wishers become close friends to you, and keep your friends at a short distance. This will help remove all the "masks" from all of your colleagues.
Forget the gossip
You don't need to be a “distributor” of them in the workplace. Anything that you don't like, keep somewhere in the depths of your thoughts.
Support your colleagues
Help everyone who asks you for help. If they are impudent, refuse politely and tactfully.
Do not separate from society
Take part in all tea, holiday and coffee rituals. Stay at corporate events when they "thrive" in your team.
Develop yourself, read useful and intelligent books!
Everyone will start to really respect you. Just don't be too clever! Nobody likes "nerds".
Do not be rude, do not be rude, do not swear
You just have to make a great impression on those around you.
Closure repels!
So try to be open, interesting and communicative.
Learn to listen (listen) and ask the right questions
It is important for women to be heard! If it happens that after five minutes you forget everything that your colleague was telling you about, show interest. Let the woman know that you are interested in her stories and discussions.
Be "neat" in compliments
Speak them only to the point, so as not to shake up anything unnecessary.
Be humble ...
Don't make people feel sorry, jealous, angry, and jealous. Do not say that everything is very good or terrible with you.
Do not discuss absent
Do you want to say something about them? Go for it! Do it directly and correctly (but only by looking into their eyes).
Accuracy - the politeness of kings!
Want to be an example - “root out” your bad habit of being systematically late. By the way, it was not in vain that politeness was recalled here! Say hello, say goodbye, say gratitude.
Attention to the little things ...
- Make sure your phone is always on. Colleagues need to answer at one in the morning, if necessary. Welcome any way you communicate with them.
- Make business cards and give them out to everyone you work with and come across in the hallways. Make it clear that you do not mind "cooperating" with them and outside the walls of the work building. Do not forcefully “shove” business cards to people who do not want to take them.
Wind on your mustache ...
Leave the women's team if you combine such qualities as beauty, intelligence and creativity. You yourself understand that you will be "overgrown" with black envy if you continue to work with female persons.
It is worth looking for another job if everyone dislikes you. "You can't be cute by force." This saying can apply to absolutely everyone (everyone). Do not impose and do not "spread"! You have pride and your own self.
You need to leave work beautifully!
Make (set) a wonderful table and invite everyone. Make no exceptions! Those who are unpleasant to you can be tolerated for one more day.
Get ready for the fact that the "newly-made" team you may not like one hundred percent. How to behave in such cases? Continue to be yourself (do not "build" anyone out of yourself).
Do not change jobs if the team is not yours. Hold out at work for at least a few years, so as not to leave a "bare" line in the work book.
"Pluses" of the female team
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